HOW TO FIND THE BEST FIT FOR YOUR NITEFLIRT CALL

Are you a NiteFlirt customer who found this site?  Good! We want you to read and to learn how to avoid some of the common mistakes that happen.  Calling a sex worker on the phone should be fun!  It should leave both parties satisfied in the end.  In fact, you should find a couple of females/males that you enjoy and keep them as your favorites and call them back.  Once you do that, it reduces the chances of you calling a new person and being disappointed.  It takes a little time and effort but will pay off in the long run.

NiteFlirt is for amateur phone sex providers.  It is not one of those 800 call an actress lines.  Those are the ones that have a woman who takes your credit card information and then transfers your call to someone and then listens in to your call so that the operator/actress gives the caller what he wants and does not say or do anything to steal him away.  They ‘act’.  Those operators work for the firm, not themselves as we do on NiteFlirt. They have no control or say over their calls or how disgusting the caller is or anything!

If you use NiteFlirt, you are special and we love you for that! ♥  It shows you have class.

But, you have a responsibility as a consumer to buy/call the right fit for you and to find what you’re looking for and to make sure the person you call can provide it.

The criteria for finding the right phone sex provider are: 

a) experience b) her ad or listing content c) feedback/reviews.

HERE’S HOW TO MAKE THE BEST OF YOUR TIME AND MONEY ON NITEFLIRT

As a NiteFlirt customer, each and every one of you is unique.  You might have the same interests, but when speaking with you about those interests each of you has his own history, personal likes/dislikes and people in his life that might have sparked it.  When a phone sex operator takes your call WE WANT TO PROVIDE YOU WITH THE BEST CALL WE CAN!  No one wants to fail. We want happy clients who come back again and again.

YOU, THE CUSTOMER, HAVE A RESPONSIBILITY TO CALL THE RIGHT PERSON

Example #1: If you are a fetishist who likes CEI or something even more particular and you’re amped up ready to blow and in your haste you call this type of ad on the front page:

“I’m a new flirt, college girlfriend for you” and inside her ad says, I am open-minded and new to this so be gentle.  I’m super horny all the time and my boyfriend just doesn’t do it for me”.  (CLEARLY, THIS IS NOT AN EXPERIENCED PHONE SEX OPERATOR) 

You call this newbie and start blabbing about eating your cum and spewing it all over your face, ‘make me eat me cum Mistress-and you’re panting and your voice is cracking she is going to clam up and hang up because you just freaked her out! LOL

What happens next?  She is shocked, goes quiet and then hangs up on you.  You called the wrong flirt.  This is where it is up to you to make an effort to call the right person. How about go to the ‘fetish section’ and find a FemDom or better yet, go search for CEI instruction?

It is your responsibility to shop wisely.

Example #2  Do not call a FemDom and ask her to ‘ride your cock’ or suck it!

You are the one responsible for finding someone who advertises ‘girlfriend experience, gfe, girlfriend, cock sucker, I wanna ride your cock etc…DO NOT CALL A DOMINANT for that.  I don’t care if her photo has her in pink hair and pigtails, read the ad!  If you fail to read an ad that’s on you and no one else!  Don’t leave her bad feedback until you’ve read her ad, you have 7 days to leave feedback.  If you missed that she is a FemDom, that’s on you!

Example #3 You must be able to articulate your own interests. We are not mind-readers, please use your big boy words.  If you’re uncomfortable being straightforward, then tell the flirt, I’m kinda shy and let her ask questions.  If she doesn’t and demonstrates that she is annoyed at you, or she cannot ask questions to pull out what you’re into, tell her thanks anyway and hang up.  Call someone who is experienced!  New flirts especially don’t know how to ask questions or don’t think they should and some just don’t want to bother.

If you get a flirt whose kinda, “just tell me what you want and I’ll make the sounds or say the words” then tell her, I don’t think we’re a good match and hang up and block her so you don’t get her again or she doesn’t lash out at you in mail or chat.  Then, if you wish you can say something like, “She couldn’t really deliver the conversation I needed to get going” and let it go at that.

An abusive user uses terms like: bitch, thief, slut, or trash or dumb…it only makes YOU look like a bully and an immature guy who’s prick didn’t get what it wanted so you abused the girl.  Maybe, it was you.  Maybe it was her, but use your big boy words and make some sense out of the feedback.  I guarantee you that other callers will take you seriously.  And, do you really want to call a site where men are verbally abusing sex workers?

Bad feedbacks aren’t always bad.

LEAVE FEEDBACK THAT INFORMS OTHER CUSTOMERS, NOT RETALIATES.

Until NF implements and minimum character count and in-depth AI reviewed feedback systems, it is important that other potential customers know about your experience and that you explain why the call didn’t work out.  Calling someone a thief doesn’t inform anyone of anything and makes you look poor and desperate.  What did she steal?  What happened?

EXPLAIN YOUR CALL EXPERIENCES SO THAT OTHERS ARE INFORMED.

*There was music in the background and I felt she wasn’t paying attention

*She told me to call back because she was at a soccer game

*Her demeanor was uninterested…wouldn’t ask any questions and didn’t care about fantasy or ‘she went somewhere I didn’t ask and wouldn’t stop…

*She asked too many questions that didn’t apply to my fantasy

*She asked for a tribute right away and never even asked me my name or what I was into

*She wanted me to go on PayPal and call her back, I didn’t want to do that

These are all good examples of bad feedback.

So, in sum, we both have a responsibility to keep NiteFlirt a popular site for us all.  You are a client, you deserve to be heard and have a good time, but we as providers deserve your expressive thoughts in words and to be appreciated.

Sex work is hard work.

Sex workers should be prized among our societies, as they have been for thousands of years.

Each of you is an individual, and so are we.  Find the right fit for you, make us a favorite and stick with us-that way you don’t have to repeat what you like every single time you call.

Front page ads are generally new flirts or those who don’t receive repeat callers and there’s a reason for that.  Keep that in mind, and Oh, understand those numbers below our thumbnails.

Those numbers represent 2 points for every 15 minutes of talk time.  Not the amount of calls we’ve taken.

BTW, we pay NiteFlirt for each of your clicks.  While it’s more complicated than that, it is true.  That’s how we promote our listings and how they make money whether we do or not.  So, keep that in mind when you’re bored and clicking around the website.  Just don’t sign into your account, and we won’t be charged.  It can get expensive and will keep resentment of you out of the equation.

Thanks!