Dick Pics Unsolicited (NiteFlirt Chat)

This post is for flirts, PSO’s and customer’s who read this post.  As stated in our forward, we want this site to be a protective and informative option and a learning place.  Yes, some comments and reports will be used a examples of what not to do, and conversely, what TO DO.  It is not intended to shame anyone since all posts/reports are anonymous.

Phone Sex is sex work.  It’s in the title.  That means many things. We talk to hundreds of men on the phone about sexual topics, read emails from customers and get paid to read text messages.

In order to do business, we advertise sexual topics.  As you browse the sites some flirts advertise themselves as “whores” cumsluts (whatever that is) and ‘use me’, abuse me and make me yours, treat me like garbage, choke me, call me names and a plethora of other terms and advertisements making them appear to be so into cock and men that they will do ANYTHING for it.  If that’s your thing, that’s your business.  But don’t be surprised if some random knucklehead sends you a pic of his dick.

REPORT: This site received a report that a customer sent them a dic pic and multiple texts in a row, then wrote bad feedback after discovering he was blocked.  I posted the original report because the customer stated clearly, “I was blocked after sending a dick pic”.

On the report response, we (admin) explained that the report was allowed, but contained false or misleading information.  The false info was that he only ‘chatted’ and wrote bad feedback.  We explained for informative purposes…WEEKS LATER, the same flirt wrote that she was a 15 yr veteran of the business and felt shamed, and hoped that “it never happens to me”?  A dick pic? Really?  Most of us have received them! I’m not traumatized by them!  It’s a penis!  We are in sex work!

If she is still fixated and traumatized weeks later, I suggest there is more going on then a dick pic, but as far as being correct about the report and feedback issue:

FEEDBACK: Customers cannot leave feedback for chat nor emails.  They must have made a purchase or made a phone call.  The flirt must have spoken to this guy prior and he used that call to leave 1 star feedback stating ‘I sent her a dick pic and she blocked me’.  Well, he’s stupid for one thing.  But, she missed the chance the EDUCATE THIS customer and empower herself:

“Hey___-, we are only paid by responding to each text, so no multiples please. Oh, and the best rule of thumb is wait to be asked before sending a photo of your genitals to people on the internet.
Please remit $10 (or your choice amount) to make up for both the pic and the texts. Thank you.”

If you consider yourself too much of a ‘lady’ to have received a dick pic, then act like one and demand to treated that way. It doesn’t matter whether you are a FemDom or a submissive, boys will be boys! 9 times of out of 10, you will get an apology and the money or at least an apology.  Don’t fixate and cry about it, run your business like a professional.  No one expects you to be a door mat! You’re charging them to call/text/email-it’s no secret that you’re a business woman!

Men are sometimes stupid. 

They want to show anyone their hard dick!  “Look! Look at it, ‘it’s so hard’! Yes, it’s immature and reckless, but so are men.  For heterosexual females, how many of you have had a bf put a towel on his hard cock and show it off? Me too!  Immature? Yes.


You don’t have to be a Female Dominant to set the rules of your business.  Dick Pics?

We have all seen them, we all get them and until NiteFlirt gives us the option of charging to view the photos that come across on chat before we see the photo then we will continue to see dick pics!  And, we all get bad feedbacks.  Stop reading them! If you’re a highly experienced, ‘long time’ PSO you shouldn’t give a shit about one bad feedback.  As far as I am concerned, feedback that states, ‘she blocked me for sending a dick pic” would inform others not to do that.  So, in the end-it’s good feedback.  Unfortunately, we can’t stop it.

Until then, you have a few options.

  1. If you are traumatized by dick pics, don’t use the chat system. You will get them. Or, turn it on only for certain customers.
  2. Write your listings to reflect your sensitivity to such activity and state firmly that you will not tolerate them. (the biggest problem I see with flirt listings, is a lack of understanding basic marketing and effective copywriting to reflect you and your business) and explain to your customers NO MATTER WHAT YOUR CHARACTER’S PERSONA, you are a business woman!  I don’t respond to multiple chats without tributes.  You can even tell me IN THE CHAT.
  3. IT’S YOUR BUSINESS.  JUST BECAUSE YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF A ‘SUB’ DOESN’T MEAN YOU CANNOT SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF. If you can’t, or won’t-then your life needs some exploring because you likely get taken advantage of regularly and that makes everything seem worse than it is.

Abusive Callers on NiteFlirt or any phone sex site


KNOWLEDGE IS POWER=welcome to the NiteFlirt Blacklist

The following post describes many aspects of those callers’ who eventually come around to all of us.  Unfortunately, many people (females) are involved with/in abusive relationships.  Read on to get some valuable information and how to recognize abuse on and off the phone.

Gaslighting-Someone tries to make you believe something that you KNOW isn’t true.

Raging-An extreme over-reaction to a simple question or boundary, an unnatural response.

Defensive-Refusing to accept criticism or correction without anger or blaming you.

Aggressive-Making demands that go beyond the norm or pushing your obvious boundaries.

Delusional-Believing that something is true even with proof that it isn’t.  A fixed belief.

Toxicity-A combination of those above in and out of conversations/relationships.

Over-reactive-Undue emotions to a simple request or suggestion or comment.


The next time you find yourself in a difficult call with someone suffering from mental instability or a personality disorder…recognizing the signs can keep you from being abused or allowing someone with these disorders into your phone sex life or worse, your head.

We are humans and as such we have to deal with other humans.  That is not always easy.  Learning how to see the signs of a mental disorder (in REAL life or on the phone) is essential to keeping yourself healthy and making good money with good customers/while hanging up and taking the loss from bad ones.

DARVO-This is an acronym for the following signs and actions by someone who is a narcissist or just a gaslighter.  You don’t have to be a narcissist to gaslight someone.

DARVO (an acronym for “deny, attack, and reverse victim and offender“) is a reaction that perpetrators of wrongdoing, particularly sexual offenders, may display in response to being held accountable for their behavior. Some researchers indicate that it is a common manipulation strategy of psychological abusers.

Many phone sex operators who have been in the business for a long time have earned an honorary PhD after dealing with so many sick individuals.  Most of our callers are fabulous and we love them dearly.  Some are just your average guy, and we love them too.  But, once in a while you will get a call from the nutty buddies who use phone sex as a substitute or replacement for all of the personal relationships they have ruined.


Too many new phone sex operators think that they have to put up with abusive or difficult callers because they 1. feel since he’s paying he gets to run the call 2. Afraid of bad feedback.

You owe him NOTHING.  When a difficult, insecure, immature and sick prick causes you to feel confusion, anger, shame or you simply get that tightness in your chest that’s telling you, ‘something’s wrong here’..hang up.  If he leaves you bad feedback it will say more about him than you.  His appalling feedback will show who he is, not you.

When you stand up to or put your foot down or set boundaries with someone who is a gaslighter or a gaslighting narcissist you will usually get a strong response.

eg: flirt clicks on one of my buttons, and I follow-up.  “Hey, you clicked and then blocked me? What’s up with that, is there something you wanted”?

I always follow-up with leads since I’m selling something.  If the response is (which I got) over-reaction, blame, gaslighting (‘she knew I would reach out”) um, yes I’m selling a product, “then blames shames and accused me, of ‘being mad’ which I wasn’t and then victimized me by her pseudo intellectual diatribe, using the word’ ergo…just to show me (as gaslighter’s do) that although she is to blame, she is smarter than me.  THAT IS DARVO.

When you light the fire of a someone with personality disorder you will get an UNNATURAL RESPONSE.  Generally, they lie.  And, they get very angry for nothing.

“My hand must have slipped and I hit a button” I knew you’d do this or get angry so I blocked you” or, the customer says, “It’s your fault I spent this much money and can’t pay by bills, “you told me to call you” when all you did was send out a marketing email, and for no good reason when he does call, he’s angry at hello.  This is the sign someone is very ill.

If you get this type of response after setting rules or boundaries to the following:

  1. Insinuates there’s more between you than a pay for play relationship
  2. Gets angry with you when you say you have to go, and blames you for ‘taking his money’
  3. Asks you outright, “do you enjoy talking to me?” and nothing you say will appease him
  4. Or, asks for more than you’re willing to give, and get’s angry with you and shames or blames you then, YOU ARE DEALING WITH A MENTALLY UNSTABLE OR UNHEALTHY PERSON.


Set the rules.  You have standards. You deserve to be respected.  Gaslighters and abusers cannot change and you cannot reason with them. They often have issues that are much bigger than it appears during their psychodrama.  Nothing you say will make them see themselves.

Gaslighters lie.  It’s nothing more.  They will lie about the simplest thing and say ‘you did that’ when in fact, they did it.  You deserve to know the facts and that facts are real.  You know the truth when it’s there and you can own it.  You deserve to make a living without being abused by anyone.  But, remember, these people are in essence, weak and insecure. 

Don’t lose sight of that.  Set a boundary and watch the result.  If you do and your narcissist or rage-oholic responds with psychodrama, you will know one thing.  They will not change and you cannot win.  Just walk away, hang up and block them.

While remaining very calm say, we are ending this call now.  No matter how he yells, begs, screams, promises ‘not to do it again, or I’ll stop”.  Hang up.  End it.  Over.

If he calls or writes you again after being blocked, and after changing his screen name or opening a new account, remain calm and DO NOT SAY A WORD after you realize it’s him.  Simply hang up, block and report.  You cannot win with these fixated and profoundly sick men/women.  Just ignore.

Feeding someone with these insecurities, fear, and abandonment issues-or giving ANY fuel to their fire excites them!  They need your reaction to feed off of.  DO NOT RESPOND TO THEM.  When they sense they are out of their league intellectually, they will run and block you.  I’ve done that and it’s wonderful.  But, it still sits on your mind “why did they/she/he come to me? How did I invite them into my business?

You probably showed up and showed yourself to be proud, respectable, intelligent and successful.  Narcissists see themselves in you, but the truth is, they aren’t, cannot be and never will be.  It’s like narcissist looking into that water at himself he was transfixed with himself but he drowned.

A real psycho addicted narcissistic person can never be you.  They want to be, but fail.  When they figure that out, they victim blame, try and shame you, put you down, pretend to know you better than you know yourself and when all else fails, get very very angry!

Just hang up.

Report them to the platform you are on for cyber-stalking or harassment.

You can win only by REFUSING TO ENGAGE.  These people do not change.

They are fueled by conflict.

Recognizing the patterns of abusive narcissists is key to putting them where they belong.


The flirt I mentioned above has a politically charged listing just for that reason.  She is inviting conflict engagement.  Her livelihood and her personality are fueled by psycho drama and it attracts others with the same personality disorder.

Without a false sense of superiority and wallering in delusions of grandeur (thinking that arguing is ‘winning’) and that they/she is smarter than everyone around her, she if left with her quiet mind, which means she is unnoticed and lonely.  There is no one to fuel her/their false sense of superiority.

LEAVE THOSE CUSTOMERS TO HER OR OTHER’S LIKE HER and do not respond to them, do not fuel them and know that you will make more money on a decent, kind and imaginative person on the next call.

DO NOT ENGAGE THEM.  After all, watch the Capital Riots and the traitor who caused it.  THAT IS THE RAGE displayed by an infantile, insecure narcissist.  Then he reverses victim/offender and makes himself the victim.  We all see it!  It’s right there on video.

This is the essential DARVO relationship.  He is sick and no one can convince him otherwise.

 When a gaslighter is left without fuel, they either rage or blame or shame or resort to violence.

Keep in mind, if you are experiencing any of this type of abuse in real life, get help.

Get out if you can.

Never incite a real sick man into a rage around you, your children or defenseless pets.

Help is available

Speak with someone today

National Domestic Violence Hotline

Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service





Expose NiteFlirt Bad Boys’ Feedbacks


So, there is one report that I did not post or approve because in my 15 yrs on NiteFlirt I’d never run across the offender.  The flirt who reported him just said, “more bad feedbacks and abuse than I can count” but I cannot go on that alone.

So, expose those bad reviewers who insult, call us cunts, bitches, losers and so much else when it’s just not necessary!





The Sheriff

NiteFlirt Customer AMister Troll Abuser (pre-block him)


 I have received a report that this flaccid prick might be an actual sex worker on NF!!!  HIS ACCOUNT IS: tyeyoudown

This is the supposed listing: Here

I cannot confirm this. If you have any info that confirms he is a flirt, let me know!


Customer name: Tyeyoudown  (member since 2015)
Date: Jan 5, and 6,2023

Tyeyoudown is an actual flirt, yes a flirtNot a good one!

Report: He called me and started speaking to me about underaged stuff. I INSTANTLY changed up the conversation he was happy with this. I advised we do not talk about underaged and its against the TOS of NF. He said ok. The next day Tyeyoudown called again and was back at the undeage stuff. I said, the call will stop if you continue. I will also block you and report to NF. He unleashed on me calling me a cunt, whore and a fucking faggot. So I hung up, blocked and reported to NF.

The next day there were two reviews left with exceptionally bad comments. I went to NF and they removed 1 of the 2 reviews. On the review that was left they took off the comments but the review will remain in place.

This person is habitual with their 1 star reviews and comments. I am not the only person who has pushed back but now I have a bad review. My way around this was to delete the listing and now its no longer showing. Sadly it was my least expensive listing to be on the home page.

Tyeyoudown aka AMister is one troubled person. Avoid him.  Block Him! Do not entertain him or accept chats from him!

AMister NiteFlirt troll and serial mysigonist
His most recent attack!



AMister NF troll fucker

This is his petty little attempts at demeaning women on NiteFlirt he is an abusive troll NiteFlirt hello? Rescind his privileges!

Misogynist AMister NiteFlirt's biggest abuser!


AMister LOL
You’d think he’d give up!
AMister NiteFlirt Blacklist Rude Abusive Niteflirt customer AMister Prick
And, he continues!
NiteFlirt, do something!

LOL, ‘not good enough for him?”  He is lucky he gets to speak to a female at all, but of course he pays for it and yet no one is “good enough”.   This is just his way of getting away with abusive behavior. Hello NF!


Nitflirt blacklist
This is what he does, he gave her 5 stars then a few days later when she didn’t put up with this INSANE abuse he gave her 1


NiteFlirt blacklist AMister Troll abusive prick fucking dead bastard
This flirt had over 100 points but only 5 feedbacks his gave her a four star rating!

AMister pre-block NiteFlirt Abusive Prick

NiteFlirt Blacklist offender AMister NiteFlirt Troll

Just saw this on the site recently, what is the definition of insanity? Ha ha you’d think he’d stop, but he’s a low life pathetic weak son of a bitch and can’t!  I’m sure he was at Jan 6th because he’s just an angry moron.


AMister NIteFlirt's biggest LOSER
His idea of a sexual PSO submissive is to take REAL INSULTS and love it! LOL HE’S PATHETIC!

Today, July 31st a brand new flirt was given 1 star by this prickless ass because she wouldn’t give him her home address!  Report him to NiteFlirt under policies and abuse if he does that to you!



NITEflirt blacklist

NiteFlirt Troll AMister Abusive Prick PreBlock NiteFlirt Blacklist


NiteFlirt Blacklist AMister niteflirt's biggest troll


AMister is a NiteFlirt troll


Notice the pattern?  He called her, gave her 5 star reviews but when she asked him, “please don’t call me again” he gave her 2 star. He’ s so fucking sick!!! Off his meds!

AMister NiteFlirt Troll Pre-Block this bastard!
He asked for something inexcusable on 2nd call.
AMister NiteFlirt's crazy troll
Will he ever give up?
AMister the niteflirt troll pin prick loser
Let’s castrate this prick!

niteflirt black list AMister

And, he say’s she’s the one who is dumb? LOL
AMister is a bully and asshole on NiiteFlirt Trolll
You’d think he’d just move on..but he’s insane

Report Abuse on NiteFlirt

AMister is the worst customer on NiteFlirt He hates women



AMister niteflirt's biggest bully

AMister is an abusive prick NiteFlirt troll

AMister is a mentally ill niteflirt customer



AMister is a mentally ill, woman hating probably disabled loser fuck who deserves to have his little balls cut off!

If you are new to the phone sex scene and put yourself on the front page of the NITEFLIRT site as a submissive, you are going to get a call from this unstable, hateful, bully and moronic fuck.  I suggest anyone who advertises as a submissive on NiteFlirt PRE-BLOCK HIM.  How?

Go to your account.

Click on mail.

Click on the last tab, options.

Add AMister to the empty box and hit enter.

This is just the latest of hundreds of 1 star feedbacks!  He’s a fucking nut job!!!

What’s the definition of insanity? “Continuing to do the same thing over and over again, expecting a different result”  He’s INSANE.


NiteFlirt’s terms of service and pedos


It’s hard for us who have been on NiteFlirt for years to understand and keep up with all of NiteFlirt’s ever changing rules and terms of service.  Most if not all websites have a standard “we’ve updated our terms of service” emails to it’s users or sign-in notices on their website(s) so that their users can keep up!  NiteFlirt does not.

Recently, a flirt reported:

I’ve had a group of men wanting to do underage play. I find it disturbing and sick. It’s also against the rules. I’ve been telling them I don’t do underage play and that I’m sorry. Why can’t these guys follow the rules when it comes to things like that. Makes my stomach turn when they talk about children.

Steering callers away from topics you are uncomfortable with or that violate a website’s policies is always a win-win for you and your customer.  Why? Because, when you steer them away from that “taboo” topic you are in control of the call which is usually a good thing; but you are allowing him to get off and enjoy himself without hearing, “that’s against the rules” and having him hang up, never call you again and him having to call someone else.  Both of those things can make NiteFlirt lose customers to other platforms that allow age-play.

But, it’s not always possible to steer someone.  If someone has a preoccupation for a topic, like young people, he is probably a criminal who downloads illegal kiddy stuff (or tries to find it) and may even have molested someone.

But, there are those porn addicts on NiteFlirt or who call phone sex in general who have to ramp up his porn addiction to topics that are more and more ‘taboo’.  Then, there’s the weirdos who just like younger people because they are powerless in life and have anti-social tendencies.  These are also the humiliation junkies who can be steered or humiliated and you’ll get a decent call out of them.


So, when a caller begins to go ‘there’ with a taboo subject matter you are uncomfortable with, you can lower your voice volume…which makes them listen harder; and then say, ‘so, you’re stunted emotionally and sexually’?  Wait…his response; well, if you’re attracted to human’s who aren’t your equal, you must be pretty pathetic sexually.  Wait…more than likely you can continue to humiliate him and steer the call to him being homosexual, in the closet, small penis humiliation, Domme him into calling you Mistress or Master, call him your weak bitch etc…

You may get a good 10 minutes or more out of him without denying him a call and yourself money.

Then, if he has an online account, give him a few hours and write him with “thanks for your call” I look forward to another as long as we stay on the fact that “you’re my weak lil bitch” lol thanks again!

Or, conversely, you can block his future calls-it’s up to you.




Phone Sex Safety

Phone sex is sex work.

There are many nice guys who call us on NiteFlirt, but there are some who aren’t. 

Those few minutes you spend with a man (a stranger) on the phone can allow him to hide all manner of faults.  You don’t know his criminal background or his mental health background; nor do you have any references for his character.  Anyone can fake being a decent human being for a little while.  But, what happens when he becomes emotionally unstable?  What do you do when you’ve ‘trusted’ him with your real name and location and the next time you’re not available for him he goes off the rails?

Using best practices can possibly save you from being cyber-stalked or worse!

Best practices is a term used to explain the best way to stay professional and provide a good service.

In phone sex and for sex workers specifically, it’s important to remember, Men are Pigs!  They are controlled by their cocks and testosterone and that combination can be dangerous if not controlled.  You can take screen shots of your calls and send them to NiteFlirt when someones calls directly after a call on NiteFlirt.  You should take snippets of your customer lists and calls if you think the same caller is using different screen names to harass you.  You can also ask NiteFlirt to remove abusive feedbacks if the customer left more than one.  Keeping yourself safe is paramount to keep us all safe!  One mistake or opening for one nutjob will only encourage him to do it to others!


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