NiteFlirt BlackList

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Welcome to the New NiteFlirt Blacklist

Everyone gets difficult calls and everyone has received bad feedback

The difference from a bad call and abuse is…If he yelled at you, harassed you and called you names, called you a c*nt or bitch in feedback or called repeatedly and/or changed his screen name just to call you after you blocked him.  If he lied about things in your feedback or you had NiteFlirt remove the offending feedback.  That is ABUSE. 


Policy: Please don’t use the same language they use against us. Explaining what happened logically helps everyone understand better.

The biggest abuser on NiteFlirt is AMister.  PRE-BLOCK HIM! Ask in forums to learn how.

As usual with anything that involves hundreds of people, YMMV, your mileage may vary. Not every member has the same experience with every flirt. 

If you can upload the abusive feedback to your NiteFlirt file manager please copy the code into your post, you can remain anonymous.

35 thoughts on “NiteFlirt BlackList

  • September 18, 2021 at 11:09 pm


    Called me for about 90 mins. He has as heavy accent so it was hard to hear him at times, but he seemed to enjoy the call. Two days later he leaves 1 star feedback saying we did a 10 minute call but I hacked his account & stole all of his money. This wasn’t the case so NF removed the feedback. I wouldn’t risk it ladies!

    • September 28, 2021 at 11:23 am

      He has been a custy of mine for a few months now. I have literally never had a problem with him. That is so odd.

    • September 28, 2021 at 12:46 pm

      This is a case of YMMV, but I thought since NF removed his feedback it was worth the post.
      Thanks for your input.

  • September 12, 2021 at 3:47 pm

    September 11, 2021
    Customers name is: rebelwsc

    Started out by just making a statement which left me no where to go but O? I said is there something you actually want to converse about because all you did was make a statement. I was very nice about it but I made it clear that statements don’t start conversations… And he went off on me like a madman calling me stupid and just unnecessarily rude! He’s probably been turned away or told he was stupid by a lot of girls that day and I was just another one on the list or the last one and he lost his shit! LOL
    It’s not my problem the guy doesn’t know how to start a conversation.

  • August 23, 2021 at 6:42 pm

    Nbalegend123 called my phone only line and asked for phone with cam. I told him I would love to phone with cam after he has called the right line. He called me a bunch of names, hung up and gave a one star saying the following: “Did not do anything on Skype. She refused to take her clothes off and just sat there and looked. She will rip u off. Please avoid calling her.”

    • August 25, 2021 at 2:30 pm

      Looks like he’s a problem. I hope you asked NF to remove the feedback.

  • August 19, 2021 at 3:16 pm

    August 17, 2021
    Customers name is Nbalegend123
    Called me and asked me to repeatedly call him and denigrate him racially. He was a black man. I did the first call although I wasn’t terribly comfortable with calling him the N-word and he called back! But when he called back the second time I said I really wasn’t comfortable with it so he left me two 1 star feedback‘s in a row because I wouldn’t do what I did the first call and he called me a racist what a nutbag
    He is now considered to be a SERIAL BAD REVIEWER WHO INSULTS FOR NO REASON.
    This feedback was seen by the Sheriff on Aug 21, 2021

    • August 21, 2021 at 2:51 pm

      This guy also goes by JerseyMan123, he did the same thing to me when I refused to call him the N word.

  • August 19, 2021 at 3:14 pm

    February 2021
    Customer name: Allergies53
    This man called me one time for about 30 minutes and it was an OK call not great I didn’t care for him but it was no worries. Then he calls me again a month later and because I can’t remember the first call and I don’t treat him like we’ve got some sort of special relationship after I explain I’m struggling remembering him he hangs up on me and writes that I am a horrible person that I have a defective memory I don’t know what the hell I’m doing… So rude!
    The fragile male ego is really something to behold.

  • August 16, 2021 at 5:40 pm

    Offense date: Aug 16, 2021
    Customer Name: Bitchboyinthongs
    Calls, I answer but he hung up before I could hit 1 to accept.
    Calls back, I answer and say, Hello, this is…and he kept saying, “hello, hello?
    So, I hung up because clearly this idiot struggles to use a telephone.
    Less than a 1 minute call and his feedback?
    “Sound old, not the same person on the listing (I’ve been on NiteFlirt under that screen name for 13 yrs) ‘dusty old bitch…and other stuff.

  • August 15, 2021 at 2:09 pm

    Member 2909184 called today (August 15, 2021) and said his name is Spencer and asked if I was a real domatrix or just here to chat. He wanted to travel to me for an in-person session and that’s all he wanted. I tried to redirect the conversation, but he was not interested.

    I told him that’s not what Niteflirt was for and it was not allowed. His account is 2 months old, so it’s not clear if he’s a brand new caller and confused, or if he’s trolling, or if he’s had luck with other flirts arranging in-person pro sessions, but it was clear he expected to find what he was looking for on Niteflirt. I reported him and blocked him.

    • August 16, 2021 at 2:17 pm

      I have a 10 min call from him on one of my FemDom accounts also.
      I have him blocked as well, but no notes.
      Glad you turned him in.
      There really is no way to overcome a call like that.
      You’re damned if you do, and damned if you don’t.

  • August 10, 2021 at 5:52 am

    ZeusApollo was a first time caller. Called early in the morn. He wanted me to start a TOS violation (scat or toilet play)scenario in which I am using him as a toilet. He immediately switched from meek to a screaming maniac when I wouldn’t do that kind of call, yelling SHUT THE FUCK UP among other things and it wasn’t long before he hung up.

    • August 11, 2021 at 11:10 am

      I have him in customer list as blocked. My notes state he wanted me to ‘stand over him’ and humiliate him.
      I said, “I am not the girl for you, I don’t just humiliate guys, my notes state he said, OK, I’ll do what you will…
      And I have a 24 minute call from him. But, I must have blocked him for a reason.
      It was 2015 so I don’t know why. I believe there are so many ways to tell guys that you won’t engage in nasty topics that NF doesn’t allow without pissing them off so much.
      Maybe, we could have an exchange in the forums to gather ideas…Additionally, I ALWAYS make callers tell me “what type of slave”?
      That could be, sissy, bdsm, forced-bi and a plethora of other types.

  • August 8, 2021 at 8:11 pm

    GOLDFINGER903 gave me a one star review on a four minute call in which he wanted TOS violations. “Waste of Time.” On a two year listing that had nothing but five star glowing reviews. I removed the listing and trashed all those good reviews…just republished it with a zero rating. Fortunately, this was not my main listing, but it seems to be getting more traffic, so was not interested in having the new traffic see that unwarranted one star review from this douche nozzle.

    • August 9, 2021 at 2:04 pm

      Yep, he’s blocked on all of my accounts already, glad you reported since I have no notes on him.
      But, I went into all of my accounts to block him for a reason. Thanks for reporting!
      Pre-Block GOLDFINGER903

  • August 6, 2021 at 7:37 am

    Scottish guy
    March 3rd
    Only called for 5-ish minutes, didn’t give me much to work with, then left me a one star review calling me boring and repetitive.
    Wasn’t gonna post anything here but then saw he also left a one star for another domme calling her boring as well. Seems like a possible time waster and serial bad reviewer, probably good to pre block

    • August 6, 2021 at 1:33 pm

      I know James.
      He has called me several times. He is a sub and likes BBC.
      I have included his feedback from a while ago, but he called as recently as July 2021
      It’s difficult with guys who are quiet.
      I have written him and advised he should just “move on” when things don’t work out with a flirt.
      If you see more, bad feedbacks, let me know.
      sCottish guy

  • July 16, 2021 at 1:37 pm

    Csutomer: JC1941 “Jim” in TN
    JUly 15, 2021
    Calls me several times for LONG CALLS, no problems. But, he never has anything to say! So, I blab away while he grunts and masturbates. I leave silences, still he has nothing to say!
    After his call, I kindly suggested we not speak again over email and he went crazy!
    He wrote 3 long emails in succession and then left the most horrible feedback calling me a bitch and other mean things.
    You can’t trust any of these a**holes! They are sick and when they’re nice it’s just an act.
    Block him before he does the same to you!

  • July 9, 2021 at 11:01 am

    Customer: Jerseyman123
    Brand new cam model gets this as feedback..”Yo, this bitch had kids playing and talking the background, do yourself a favor and do not call her she is horrible!
    And he could have stated a more helpful ‘feedback’ to help someone who was OBVIOUSLY NEW!
    IDIOT and abuser!

    • July 14, 2021 at 6:50 pm

      I actually had him call me once when I accidentally left my availability on. I sent an email apologizing to him and said I would be on and available later in the day and he responded, “unacceptable bitch”. So glad I never spoke with him!

    • October 9, 2021 at 2:24 pm


  • July 1, 2021 at 2:12 pm

    Customer: Gary K 1050
    Call July 1, 2021
    NiteFlirt has been having serious technical issues when i saw my call monitor go busy so after three freaking tries the guy finally gets through. After I said hello this blithering idiot didn’t shut up for a full minute telling me he was owned by mistress Candice and he couldn’t get through to her because of technical issues so “she suggested he call someone else”.
    Then he says oh she’s calling me on the other line hold on. He comes back and tells me she called him, how? I don’t know! But they’re obviously in contact off NiteFlirt.
    Then after three tries and three emails he finally gets through blithers some stupid crap for a full minute put me on hold, then tells me mistress Candice can take his call and he tells me he’s got a conference call in three minutes and has to run! Liar! So he wasted my time and he was rude because he was really just hanging up to call her.

  • June 30, 2021 at 6:05 am

    Not a negative feedback guy (so far) but abusive and tries to take it off NF. This guy has called me a few times on my domme line, says he likes a girl who takes charge but then starts calling me a bitch and whore. The calls are always 2-3 minutes long. Last night he said he wanted to be blackmailed and gave me his “wife’s” number so I could call her and get him in trouble. Said that was the only way I could get him off. Of course I didn’t call “her” and about 10 minutes later he sent me a chat with the message “Why didn’t you call her? She’s right beside me and you didn’t call.” I said that I can’t take it off NF, he said he’s not a creep and he just wants me to get him off but I have to call her to do it. Seems fishy, I call him out (nicely) and he said that he’s “not that guy” and then tributes me FIVE CENTS with the message “I feel bad for you. I hope you figure your life out.”

  • June 26, 2021 at 11:21 am

    What an ASS!
    NiteFlirt customer: footboy12677
    Low life trailer trash!
    Calls my featured listing for literally 10 seconds!
    “I want you to know I’m jerkin aff’ typical NYC trash, then he goes, I just nutted, bye.
    10 seconds!!!
    Pre-Block NiteFlirt customer footboy12677 unless you enjoy 10 second calls from disgusting low lifes.

  • June 18, 2021 at 10:36 pm



    Very abusive caller that usually seems to be high on crack or something. If you don’t describe every detail of pantyhose, he rails on you. I, and others, have blocked him, but then he reopens his account to continue to harass.

    His accounts always have pantyhose in his member name. You can’t win with him.

    I just reported him to NF, and hope they will remove his bad feedback, and give him a warning.

    • June 19, 2021 at 4:21 pm

      Also uses the name variation: SissyPanyhose (without the t in panty). Leaves negative feedback (with one star) for both Dommes and Flirts

    • June 22, 2021 at 9:20 pm

      I had him. He called me twice and left me glowing feedback because I can talk a lot about pantyhose, but then chatted me a bunch, tributed $50 and when I didn’t reply as he wanted (no idea what response he ultimately wanted), spewed abusive shit at me. It was bizarre. I’ve only seen him use names with some combo of “sissi/sissy” and “panyhose” (without the t).

  • June 14, 2021 at 11:01 am

    June 14, 2021
    Not abusive but a major time waster!
    Michael4133 called 3 of my characters and never said a word, just hung up.
    He’s new to NiteFlirt and why he’s doing this, I don’t know.

  • May 23, 2021 at 3:25 pm

    Customer: Advisor Brigitte
    May 23, 2021
    Not rude outwardly, but calls every single one of my accounts and chirpingly sings, “Hi, I’m so and so, not Brigitte…from California, who are and where are you from’? Once you answer him, he hangs up! Every single on of my accounts.
    While this isn’t outright abusive, it’s a time wasting jerk with real problems.
    Based on his screen name he’s a wanna-be female jealous of those of us who actually are.

  • May 7, 2021 at 5:45 pm

    Reported by a flirt in NiteFlirt’s forums that he obtained her personal phone number after a call where he was clearly unwell and talking about other flirts with whom he’d spoken previously.
    He seemed to her as believing he was in a personal relationship with flirts.
    When the reporting flirt blocked him, she reported receiving 32 calls in 2 minutes on her personal number. There’s no reason to believe it was not him.
    Clearly, a delusional customer.

  • May 7, 2021 at 3:57 pm

    March 22nd 2021
    Called me on cam previously to him leaving bad feedback, & I could tell he was going to be tough by his reaction to me asking him “do you understand me?” well he calls back a few weeks later, and would not stop calling me “daddy” I kept warning him over and over to stop calling me that. He says it again I say “do not f**king call me that,” he says “how about I never call again you fake b**ch” then proceeds to message me how rude I am, and leave 1 star feedback. He’s gross, and also tries to violate TOS so I would pre-block.

    • May 23, 2021 at 9:42 am

      In reference to a “cucktoilet”
      “Daddy” is a common term in the gay community for a top. In this situation, I would have said in a demanding manner, as a FemDom, “You will refer to me as Master or Mistress only gay boy, do you understand me”?
      He most likely would have followed along.

  • March 19, 2021 at 9:00 am

    March 19th 2021
    He’s a one minute wanker calls every single one of my accounts for one minute and hangs up with absolutely no excuse or reason. Pre-block him he’s not worth your time!

  • March 18, 2021 at 1:44 pm

    Jay672 aka JimmytheDummy
    Texted me on an acct that was he too shy to call. I said I don’t really make money on texts, and then got a call on another account. Since I was quiet for a bit he sent 2 $5 tips. Once I said thanks for that, got a call gotta go, he said, “Good Nite”.
    Then i block him since he’s never going to call and I get another call and while on it I see a text notifiction 10 minutes later.
    It’s Jay672 on another screen name JimmytheDummy calling me all sorts of names like 5 texts in a row going off! “garbage, pc of sh*t and says he’ll have me thrown off NF! LOL
    I did not write him back at all just took a screen shot turned him into NF.
    They cannot use different accounts to harass us!


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